Yes I swapped the relays, all 4, and the DME's, and checked fuses, applied power in front of the fuse and then it ran (just used a piece of wire from the jumper terminal and applied to the fuse).
Alex, I'll have a look at that tomorrow if the reset does not help, the difference is that I don't have power on the fuse, and that comes from the K210 relay that does not trigger.... It may have gone into limp mode or something.